When someone we care about passes away, we can feel helpless and unsure of what to do or how to "make ourselves useful. " For many people, it is a time of such intense emotion and sadness, it can be difficult to think clearly to decide what to do, especially if the deceased is a very close friend or family member. Comfort can come from, and be given, through the gift of flowers. The immediate family knows you care and you have peace of mind in knowing you did something more than just say you were sorry to hear of the individual's passing. Flowers can be very powerful during these trying times. If you have decided to express your condolences with flowers, there are some things you should know before you order them. Here are five tips for you to navigate what can be a confusing process if you have not done it before:Tell the florist with whom you are working that these are flowers for a funeral. They will ask if the person will be laid to rest immediately or if there will be a viewing. If there will be a viewing, you can have the flowers sent to the funeral home. sympathy flowers Funeral flowers are often sent to the funeral home and then left at the cemetery. While many people choose to do this, you could also send a fresh bouquet to the home of the immediate family as well. Choose hearty flowers for funeral flowers, especially if there will be a viewing before the funeral. This will ensure they will remain fresh until they reach their destination at the cemetery. There are many different types of arrangements for funeral flowers. You could choose a large arrangement such as a wreath or spray or choose a smaller, more traditional arrangement or basket. There are no hard and fast rules. If the person who passed was religious or if the funeral will be in a church, you may want to choose a religious-themed arrangement such as a cross for the funeral flowers. Funeral flowers are a kind and generous way to honor someone and let the family know you are thinking of them and grieving with them. Most florists frequently create funeral flower arrangements and are familiar with area funeral homes and churches. They will be a great help to you in this difficult time and ensure the timely and respectful delivery of your flowers.